“So, really, why did you get into this kind of work?”
This is a question I have been asked countless times. I admit I have yet to find a satisfactory response. I have tried to answer it as truthfully as I could. I have tried to give the answer I think the person asking is looking for. I have also just answered it by making a joke. Somehow none of these responses seem to satisfy the other person. The joke especially drew puzzled looks. When asked how I got into my profession, my reply once was “I lost a bet.” I haven’t used that line again.
The truth is, there is no one reason why I chose this road. I am not totally clear myself why I chose this instead of, for instance, nursing. Nursing is one of the professions that men seem to think would have been a good choice for me, and they have asked me why I didn’t pursue that career. I can say that I always found the way the world works quite fascinating, and I actually do like mechanical things. I am not put off by the oils and greases, the heat and the noise. I like looking at something and trying to understand why it does what it does, or doesn’t do what it is supposed to. However, this does not explain why I chose a career that does not really welcome women. Did I look at it as a challenge? I don’t think so, but maybe in a way. Was I trying to prove something? Well, no. Was I trying to be more like a man than a woman? I actually like being a woman, so I must say no. It has been difficult at times, and rewarding at times. For sure, it has never been boring. I do hate being bored.
Actually, when I decided to pursue this path, I didn’t really think my choice was that strange. A bit out of the ordinary for a woman perhaps, but so what? I was just doing what I found interesting. I remember thinking “why not give this a go, it’s got to be better than working in an office”. Then, I found out that quite a few people thought what I was doing was strange. Including my classmates and teachers! I think sheer stubbornness and determination are what kept me there.
The reason any woman makes a choice like this must be complicated. I like to ask other trades women I meet why they made their choice. Unfortunately, I don’t meet a lot of women in non-traditional fields, though there are more now than there used to be when I first started.
I would like to hear from other women in non-traditional fields and find out how they got where they are today.
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